Having created a family, you will face many difficulties and hardships, which, having gritted fists, need to overcome and overcome.

About half of the marriages break up at the initial stage of their existence (the first five years). This comes from the fact that the familymen are not able to realize themselves in family affairs. They try to adapt one to another, and at the same time show their individuality in various plans, such as: material, spiritual and psychological.

Perhaps the cause of the early divorces is hidden in premarital relations. They could not be as serious as they seemed, or they might not have been at all (marriage due to pregnancy). Insufficient knowledge of a person or his excessive idealization can turn into a very quick divorce for the newlyweds.

But if not to turn, such relationships directly affect marriage, and everything from the fact that people have experienced few common points. But you also need to be neat with tightening, because long relations (more than three years), they talk about uncertainty in a partner, even more so if this is an age in which you already need to create a family.

It should also be remembered that the marriage that the wife or relatives provoked is likely to decay too, and if not, this marriage will be, so to speak, abnormal. The initiator should always be a man, he must want to tie himself with a marriage ties, and not do it under the “muzzle of a pistol”.

It is worth mentioning the two main motivators of marriage: love and calculation. In the case of the latter, each has their own plans. In a hurry to live separately from parents, have more money or for any other reasons, a person does not even realize the whole deplorable of the situation. Naturally, such a marriage will not have a long continuation.

Regarding the influence of the difference in the age of the spouses on their marriage, opinions diverge. Here the main thing is how much the couple feels and understands each other. After all, each of us develops differently, and the chronological age does not necessarily correspond to the psychological.