Your husband, during the time that you are together, got used to the fact that all your attention was concentrated only on him, you were a wife, a mistress, and a girlfriend. With the advent of the baby, everything began to change, now, you divide your attention into two, but it starts to seem to your husband that you were spending time only with a child.
Of course, he loves your child, but most men in the first months of life have a hidden fear of communicating with the baby, since they do not quite understand what to do with him, because he is still so small. When you were pregnant, you probably went to buy a stroller with your husband, often dreamed how everything will turn out in the future, how he would play football with his son, cars, or how he would swing his daughter on the swing and will be the happiest father. And at that happy moment when you went to buy a stroller, you did not even think about what could happen in the future.
But after childbirth, you have depression and, it seems that your husband does not want to help you, you do everything around the house and plus sit with the baby, and he, having come home from work, prefers to lie on the couch, watching the TV. Surely he tries to help you as much as possible, but you do not notice it, you just want more help. It may also seem to your husband that you forgot about him, do not pay attention, you have an eternally bad mood. You are not happy with your figure and dream of getting the former form again as soon as possible. But do not get hung up on the negative, look at your baby, isn’t it a wonderful baby?! You are already smiling!
How to revive good relations with your husband? Try to pay more attention to him, spend the three times, make a conversation about the future, for example, how great it will be great to go somewhere to rest when the child grows up. And after some time you will see how everything starts to improve, and even your depression will begin to disappear, and there the first smile of the baby, he will learn to crawl, sit, and then run, time flies unnoticed, do not spend it on a negativity!