Some women do not always correctly understand the word “fidelity”. Not to change the man is only a part of the fidelity that is meant at the moment when you marry.
Fidelity to his cause.
Nobody imposed your man to you, you chose it yourself according to a number of certain criteria. Therefore, when the question becomes about changing the place of work and moving to another city, a woman, as a rule, begins to behave absolutely wrong. Forgetting that a man must make decisions himself relating to the provision of a family, a woman does not want to part with friends and a familiar city. Without thinking at all that any move for a man is no less stress. How to behave correctly? Imagine that your man was offered a position in the Leningrad region. No matter how hard it was for you – support it, look, for example, apartments in Volosovo and start discussing with your husband only the advantages of your move. They say that all changes in life – for the better. You have a chance to test it on yourself.
Fidelity to his image.
When you met, your man was already a person with his own ideas of fashion and style. It is possible that you hoped to redo it, but … Enough time has passed, and he still walks in jeans and shirt and does not remove the sneakers. What to do? With all your confidence that you know exactly: how it will be better for him, do not forget that he also has his own opinion. Try not to break it, but to find a compromise. Go shopping together. Ask him to measure several different things. Do not force him to change the image by force – try to explain and clearly show. Do not forget that most men are not so confused by things as women. Be sure of his style and choice of clothes, because he is sure that he is so comfortable.
A number of examples can also be given where the word “fidelity” does not mean treason in the usual sense of the word. Just rethink your relationship and think: are you really true to your man?